I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

i like a guy at my church. i am one of his band's friends on myspace and i told him who i really was and that i like him. he already knew that i like him because his brother told him. i want to go out with him, but my mom doesnt approve because he is older than me. i am a really shy person when it comes to talking to a guy that i like. his mom, who i work for, has told me that he is a shy person too. what should i do to, for a lack of better words, break the ice between us? i would at least like to be friends with him and possibly in the future go out with him. my mom is worried that i will get my heartbroken if he doesn't respond to my e-mail, but im not worried about that. i just want to have a relationship with him, even if it isn't a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. advice and answers would be greatly appreciated. thanks

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

If you are to shy to talk to him write him a letter or email him and teel him exactly what your feeling. Maybe suggest going out to a movie or to the mall. That should break the ice.

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

Talk to him about the day and how it was for the two of you or if you have any plans later that day. You two could just hang out. If anything find something the two of you have in common and that's a real good icebreaker.

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

im not allowed to date and ive had 18 boyfreinds and no im not a player they all asked me and i said yes...... alll but one the one i like now.... i would still liike him and forget wat ur parents say , say your studieng wit ur freind and its not lieng cuz he'll be ur freind, and you'll be studding eachother.....

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

if u want a dating relationship u need to be outgoing and less shy practice in the mirror or talk over the phone or in email it doesn't always have to be in person.

good luck hope it works out

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

Start by being friendly with e-mail and IMing each other. This will let you all talk but avoid the shyness associated with a face to face talk. Once you all have some stuff to talk about more you and he will be comfortable to talk one on one. Just don't fall into the friend zone if you realize you want to date him. I mean you should get to know him better, and know his likes, dislikes and so on, but don't talk about pasted girlfriends and stuff because then you will be his friend and nothing more. Pulse by getting to know him better you may find that you may not be as into him as you think. So try the e-mail and IM that should get things started off OK. Good luck.

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

I think you need to straight up and tell him and how old is he? If he is 20 I dont think you should go out but if he is like 17 or 18 its ok and I think he probably likes you to and dont miss out on the chance ask him now before its to late and he gets another girl. Who knows you guys might end up spending the rest of your life together. Good Luck and remember if you need any help any help at all email me.

Bye Love

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

if you like him you should ask him out.try to build something w/ him.if he doesn't respond to your email then try to be his friend and don't worry if he said no.

I am a shy 16 year old girl that needs help?

well trust me one this one just get to be his rely good friend and gain his trust then if you rely like and you know he rely likes you then ask him out and the best why is to get a friend to do it for you