Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

he created a fake account on just dec. 8.

i asked him to sign on to the account and he refused. so i tried to get the password from e-mailing gmail. then he had a complete fit. so, i started thinking, what does he have to hide? we've had issues before in the past including: him speaking inappropriately with a girl from his past saying stuff like, 'you are my muse...you are just so wonderful and great. he also even asked her not to add me to her band's myspace.' and another time he get drunk and started kissing (like on the cheek) another woman in front of me talking about how wonderful she is. i was furious. this is the thing: he is so jealous of me but his behavior is unacceptable and unfair. i gave him 15 minutes to sign in the account or told him i'm leaving. he refused to. so i'm going to leave tomorrow, but he keeps saying how silly it is. am i right?

i feel like trust is the foundation for every relationship.

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

stick to your guns, he is definitely hiding something and trying to make you feel dumb for your suspicions.

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

Get out of this relationship as fast as you can. This guy is untrustworthy and has an unbelievable double standard. Do yourself a favor and leave

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

I agree with you...once the trust is gone between the two in the relationship, it is over.

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

After all he has done, I don't understand why you would even have to ask?

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

i dont understand the guy..

dump him!!

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

He's got a history of cheating behaviour. Why are you so surprised now? By letting him get away with the little things in the past, you have taught him that he does not need to respect your feelings. At all. And that's just what he's doing.

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

What will happen is he will show you the acct, now after he has deleted all the stuff off it, you clearly dont trust this man to be going through his emails and i would say that your relationship is over

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

Yes you are totally right to leave. You need trust and honesty to have a working relationship. Usually, if a guy is jealous and accuses you, then he's guilty. I wish you the best, and get the hell out of there chick!

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

your not silly. you have reasons to react the way your reacting right now because HE'S messing up and if he loves you or cares about you he would do things to make you happy especially doing something small like getting his password yet he's just pissing you off and tempting you to leave him. I say your doing the right thing he's completely insane for losing you... goodluck to you!

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

Online flirting is cheating. Leave. He is obviously hiding something, and you are not important enough to him to be open and honest with. Me and my husband share an email. I have nothing to hide and neither does he. That's the way it should be. Secrets kill relationships when it's about the opposite sex. Good luck.

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

You are the one who is not trusting.

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

If there was nothing to hide! What was the big deal..recently my boyfriend of a year was on my computer..so I asked him for his password to his labtop...he didn't want to give it to me! As soon as I figured out his password and signed on...he got messages from another chick! His Ex..well, now he's got another ex!

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

it's not silly.even if he lets you see his email account,how about that woman he kissed in front of you?how about his behavior that is unacceptable and unfair?he's not even respecting your feelings.he must not love you truly.leave.

Trust issues: tonight my boyfriend told me to look at his e-mail acct. that he never uses and i saw?

yes u right trust is the foundation and once broken cannot be made again. its nothing wrong that what u demand from him is the trust in return for your trust.

but if he is not at all trustworthy then better to leave and move ahead as what if u not getting it right now will you get at later stage.

so better to move ahead and save few more days of your life for something more better more suitable as per you

take care