Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right

i played in a small musical band for about 7 years, and i met my soon to be close friend. she was with a guy for 4 years, but we fooled behind his back for 2...but i finally told her we should be together. It was a great relationship but her friends started interfering cuz they're retards and slowly tore the relationship apart. we fooled around after the breakup but i finally told her i couldn't keep doing it unless we were together. needles to say i see her hanging around her ex alot more soon after.

im pretty sure she wasn't trying to hurt me, because she told me she didn't want a relationship right now. but i started constantly checking her myspace page and couldn't stand the sorrow i felt

so i have made myself stop checking myspace, left the musical band and stopped texting her every day (we used to text ALOT)

she became angry at my decision.did i make the right decision leaving my life behind? i think its only temporary but did i go about the situation the wrong way?

Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right decision?

yes you did the right thing.leve it behind you and stop letting yourself be a notch on her belt.if you can play your instrument to a crowd,you have no life of your own.your love should make your life better,not make you hide.you should only remember the good parts and not the burn.

Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right decision?

never, ever change your life just because of some girl, that;'s just lame

Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right decision?

No, you did the right thing. Be patient, you'll meet the right girl, someone that will be true to you, and not want to be with other men.

Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right decision?

Running away from your problems does not make them disappear

Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right decision?

If you dwell on the IF's and the COULD'ves you'll drive yourself crazy.

sometimes a break from something will help you clear your head and be able to see things in a clearer view than if you have everything all clouded up with DRAMA.

Give yourself that much need SIESTA from any relationships....take a break....enjoy LIFE%26gt;

Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right decision?

it`s a pretty complicted situation, i must say. i can understand how it`s easier 4 u 2 deal with it, if u don`t see her at all and if u don`t know anything about her, but i still don`t think that is the right way 2 do it....think about it this way: it`s easy 2 forget bout smone if u don`t meet, but how do u know if u r really over that person? u can hide for a looooooooooooooooooooooong time, but after that, when u`ll see her again chances are that feelings u thought weren`t there anymore will come back, and it sucks more. been there, done that, trust me! u should stick around and get used 2 the idea of the 2 of u not being together anymore. it might hurt a lot, but that`s the only sure way u can get over this and exclude the chance of u getting hurt again when u thought u`ve already healed. and another thing: is she really worth u leaving all ur life behind? is anybody really worth that?

Broke up with my closest friend. couldn't take heartache so i disapeared. did i make the right decision?

You made the right decision. She did what she thought was right for herself, and you had to do what was best for you. You did not leave your life behind, sometimes change is the healthiest thing in the world. Too many times people get caught up in a rut and they waste so much time. Let the dust settle, give yourself time to heal, and you'll find good things will come to you. Take good care.